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Cheerios with a 2-Dog Character Strengths Chaser!

© 2011 Dr. Judy Krings

 

How do you eat your cheerios? Plain?  with Bananas?
Maybe with a box of sweet raisins?  Do you have pet critters watching you,
praying your spoon might slip, leaving them a tasty drop or two?

When Mom’s beloved caretaker, Cathy, sent this photo, I cracked up.
Teasing, I told Mom she eats her breakfast with 2 bodyguards.
No need for a napkin, either.  They lick her face for dessert!

Want to know about Miss Kiki, the white smarty pants, and Mugsy,
the marvelous brown mini-guard dog? When Mom first went to stay with
Cathy and Bill the end of April, Mugsy decided he and Mom were soul mates.
Granted, it took him a few loud barks to get the larger dogs to hoof it somewhere
else. The huge black dogs, Dudley, the great Dane, and darling German Shepherd,
Jet, had to hightail it when the 2 little terror pups pranced in.

But where did Lucas, the Black Scottie fit in?
Not one for attention, he’s the bystander and sometimes the referee.
Ironic, as Mom had a Black Scottie dog, Katie, she adored. I had bet
the ranch Mom would take to Lucas. But I was wrong. Wise Mom let the
dogs decide where their canine behinds would reside.
Luca-Duca likes to hide under Mom’s chair.

Love trumps. Mugsy was in love with Mom from the get go. He laid claim
to her lap ASAP! Pet time, nap time, treat time (don’t tell!), like a king, he reigns.

Are you wondering how Kiki got into the lap time picture?
Cathy’s watchful eye captured the original scene.
One day a few weeks ago, Kiki kept staring at Mom and Mugsy.
Her doggy brain must have lit up like a Christmas tree.
Cathy swears Kiki figured out Mugsy was hogging all the attention.
Kiki is, after all, the only lady in a sea of 4 male dogs.
It was time for her to garner some respect!

After a calculated moment, Kiki took a long leap. She unceremoniously
landed right on top of Mugsy. Not one to easily give up his kingdom,
Mugsy let Kiki lay right smack on top of him. He never budged for hours!
Mom laughed her butt off.

In some nonverbal diplomacy, the two of them have worked out squatters’ rights.
Negotiation and compromise. Not bad for two pesky pups knowing they’re in luck!

How many character strengths did you notice?
Here’s a few to get you started (even if some of them are of canine origin!):
Love…Patience…Creativity…Kindness…Teamwork…Gratitude…
Critical Thinking…Humor…

What have you learned from your pet today? Ever notice their strengths?
I’d love to hear about your critter capers. And speaking curious capers. . .

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Mom’s New Delaware Paradise ~ Peace and Passions!

© 2011 Dr. Judy Krings


Want to make your Mother’s Day as happy as mine?
How about strapping on strengths wings and fly to Delaware with me?

Courage. Creativity. Beauty. Kindness. Peace. Gratitude. Generosity.
Belongingness. Peace. Friendship. Warm, open hearts.

I am sitting here with Mom in her new Delaware country home!

My terrific best friends, Bob and Cheryl, orchestrated her move.
Thanks to another special couple sent from heaven, Cathy and Bill,
Mom, 92, chirps, “I feel alive again!” They have joyfully welcomed
Mom into their sunny, cheerful home.

Mom loves pets. Five feisty dogs and three parrots delightfully engage her.
A beautiful forest reserve adorns the end of five rose-studded acres.
Mom savors cheerful, chirping birds who nod their crested heads her way.
She is anxiously anticipating the herd of deer who lounge near her window.
Her old dinner bell from her family farm, I think about 150 years old,
is now back in her grateful gaze.

Seeing Mom so happy was worth its weight in gold.
No. Make that all the colors of the rainbow.
And that’s what Mom and I wish for you!

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Did You Cry?

© 2011 Dr. Judy Krings

What does connection mean to you? 
Belonginess? Socializing? Loving?

Guess what…Having a sense of belongingness
adds years of happy living to your life.
More hope, optimism, and overall feelings of well-being.

I cried when I saw this inspirational video.
It’s an ad, but don’t let it fool you.
I bet it will be the best 3 minutes of poignant sunshine you’ll feel all day.

Click here: Josh Spector » Blog Archive » Now THIS Is A Great Commercial

 

Warm Your Heart and Soul with a Vicarious Vacation in Vallarta

© 2011 Dr. Judy Krings

Did you ever want to stop dead in your tracks and
have a vibrant vista to savor?

 I dedicate this photo to all my friends who deserve a
winter respite from wicked weather wrath.

 Appreciation of Beauty is a saving grace strength.

 Hope it warms your heart and soul.

 Close your eyes.
You’re here with me lounging my balcony,
where this picture was taken. It’s from the guest room.

 But wait…Was that Ken I heard taking the phone off the hook?

Technology, Thrill or Shrill?

© 2010 Dr. Judy Krings

How many hours a day is your butt perched on your computer chair? Or do you fall asleep with your iphone on your belly?

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