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How Do You Spell Father?

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© 2011 Dr. Judy Kring

What name do you call the man who fathered or parented you?
Dad, Pops, Daddy, Father… 3, 4, 5, 6 little letters that spell out gigantic strengths.
Nurturing, courage, vitality, wit and wisdom, loving, generous, kind, thoughtful…
I bet your list goes on.

He’s your advocate, teacher, admirer, and the man who always has your back.

This is Mom’s most cherished photo of Daddy.

After a terrible car accident and three hospital stays, it took my emaciated daddy
ten brave months before heaven called. I was 26 when he died. Serendipitously,
or was it divine intervention, I was back in Delaware working at the time.
Daddy gave me the gift of being with him before his last good bye.

Daddy wasn’t perfect, but who is? He was my hero, anyway. I still remember him
telling me if I wanted to play basketball at 5’1″,  I’d need to run faster,  shoot from
almost center court, and getup when the Amazon gals elbowed me to the ground.

How’s that for a great life lesson? I remembered it well, when I played college
basketball, the shortest one in the conference.

This one’s with love for you, Daddy.
Happy Father’s Day!

Have you told your dad or father figure you love him?
I bet you have or will, even if you are looking up into the heavens, along with me.

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P.S. Judy loves to hear your comments.
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My Best Friend’s Take: Dreams Really Do Come True

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© 2011 Dr. Judy Krings

Do you have a best friend who is always the wind beneath your wings?
I do. Her name is Cheryl Lynn Nash. We grew up two houses apart in Harrington, DE.
Below is what she wrote to me about Mom’s move to Cathy and Bill’s home.
Gulps of gratitude. I am incredibly blessed.

Dearest Judy,
I know. I understand. It’s in my paragraph below.
It’s how we truly feel, you and me. It’s real and it’s true.
Feel free to share it in any capacity, because it is about your
Momma’s joy & happiness & well being! Praise the Lord!!!

Just when we thought Louise was in the last Chapter of her life,
one of acceptance & resolve, the final page…Low and behold, a miracle,
we find her story is not yet finished.  More Chapters to come because your Mom,
and Cathy and Bill coming together. At 92 she is still playing ball and on a new team!
How many people ever get to experience this?!

This couldn’t have happened to a better woman.
This is her reward for how she’s lived her life, the kind, sweet, gentle woman
she has always been. Who knew? I am so happy she has Cathy & Bill.
I can only hope when you and I are in our final days, we have the ability to
experience one last hurrah. That’s what they are giving to her.

Cathy is the one that dreamed this dream. Now it’s a reality.
Your Mom is getting stars in her crown for this one!  It’s a win, win!
She’s a natural and her devotion is so real…The kind that cannot be faked.
Louise has a new peace and gobs of smiles left now all because of this.
It’s like we’ve dragged her back into life again. Everyday is a new day for her.
She loves life again! She just never knows how it’s going to go, but she knows
she is loved and protected and will be happy. What joy!!!
Love, Cheryl

Dearest Cheryl,
Soon it will be our turn to sit in a rocking chair. My fervent hope is we will
be rocking along together positively recounting, “Remember when…”
Love you to the rafters always, Judy

Who’s your best pal? Have you told them lately that you love them?
Is that you I hear galloping away?

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P.S. Judy loves to hear your comments.
Feel free to send her questions you may have!
You can also connect with Judy on facebook, LinkedIn, or follow her on twitter.
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Pre-Order a copy of her new book NOW! Visit: coachingpositivity.com
“Photo Adventures in Cuba ~ Unlock Your Power of Positivity”

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Radio Positive Psychology Coaching Tips Inspire

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© 2011 Dr. Judy Krings

Have you ever been on the radio? Or do you listen to talk radio?
It is my pleasure to do both. We’ve all gone out separate ways now,
but here is a blast from WCUB’s past: Radio host, Kyle Kristofer VanLanduyt,
Dr. Stacey Soeldner, me, and radio owner, Lee Davis. We rocked if I do say so
myself! The best was we all laughed our butts off.

I have often been blessed with grateful, generous folks who zip me a sweet email,
post kind kudos on social media, or even give me a call like a man did after one of
my three recent radio shows I appeared on.

I often wonder, “What was their greatest take-away pearl of wisdom?”  Talk about
an answer to my prayer. There is nothing I enjoy more than knowing positive
psychology coaching struck a happy, love-of-learning chord with a valued listener.

The email below came from an adorable listener, “Pond Girl:”

Judy,
I was having a very, very frustrating afternoon so I took a break and treated myself
by listening to your show with Sallie Felton, “A Fresh New Start.”
Well it was a treat to listen to!
Here are some of the highlights of the show that really hit me personally:
-Speak up
-Strength spotting
-Don’t give up
-Your life is yours
-What are you good at?
-Strengths drive talents and natural ability
-3 good things to 1 bad (Fredrickson’s Positivity ratio)
-One new thing you saw in a day to savor
-Appreciate beauty
-Exploring
-Be ok with uncertainty
There were a lot of other things that I found very interesting, but I could not write
that fast! I resolve that I will listen to show again.
Thank you for taking the time to share your knowledge with others.
Love you! ~ Pond Girl

Want to share the fun? Go to www.coachingpositivity.com and listen
to the radio show. Your ears deserve a good jolt of upbeat treat!
And check out my new book, too – a double-dip of delight and no calories!

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P.S. Judy loves to hear your comments.
Feel free to send her questions you may have!

You can also connect with Judy on facebook, LinkedIn, or follow her on twitter.
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Pre-Order a copy of her new book NOW! Visit: www.coachingpositivity.com
“Photo Adventures in Cuba ~ Unlock Your Power of Positivity”

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Mom’s Doggy Delightful New Home

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© 2011 Dr. Judy Krings

Want an instant smile?

Think of those you love.

This one is for you, my precious Mom.

Who plasters the biggest grin on your face?

Was that the sound of a speeding bullet whizzing by?

Nah…It was grateful you darting off to say, “Love you!” to those you adore.

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P.S. Judy loves to hear your comments.
Feel free to send her questions you may have!

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Score a copy of her new book soon:
“Photo Adventures in Cuba ~ Unlock Your Power of Positivity”

 

 

 

 

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Cluck, Cluck…Mom’s in Luck!

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© 2011 Dr. Judy Krings

Are you a “positive reminiscer“? Do you love to re-live the good times?
The golden memories that flash an instant grin whenever you
think about them?

Cathy, Mom’s new caregiver, was helping tend her neighbor’s chickens.
Mom had no idea the chickens were just around the corner next door.
You’ll love this. Mom’s parents were farmers who raised chickens!
I knew Mom would be tickled to death.

Can you imagine Mom’s jaw drop when Cathy rolled her wheelchair
belly up to the cozy chicken coop? Cathy’s neighbor is a contractor,
so his gorgeous gabled garage is a dandy. Mom joked,
“I’m at the neighborhood zoo!”

On Mom’s bureau, you see her treasures. And 24 fresh eggs!
In my mind they will always be golden eggs; like all the times
Mom and I treasure together. Our 24 signature strengths on appreciation alert.

What’s your zip-pity-do-dah animal memory?

Did one jump out at you? Need help?
Here’s the magic…Put a grin on your face first and watch
a happy memory pop up! It works every time.

You can’t lay an egg. Unless you’ve been holding out of me!

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P.S. Judy loves to hear your comments.
Feel free to send her questions you may have!

You can also connect with Judy on facebook, LinkedIn, or follow her on twitter.
Visit: coachingpositivity.com
Score a copy of her new book soon:
“Photo Adventures in Cuba ~ Unlock Your Power of Positivity”

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