7 Virtues of a Good Man
Posted by Dr. Judy at 3:00 am
© 2011 Dr. Judy Krings
My dear friend, self-made man, Dan Peters, has been through the trenches.
Severe child abuse, electrocution, drug and alcohol abuse, a suicide attempt,
and business challenges have sent him to his knees. Regardless, Dan’s passion
to help others trumps.
Recently, we were rehashing positivity and strengths strategies. Without missing
a beat, he whipped out his recent journal page. I asked him if I could share it
with you. “Absolutely, if it might another, you bet!”
Loves GOD (with all of his mind, all of his heart, all of his soul and all
of his strength): Realizes his life is no accident and allows time each day to give
thanks and praise to his Father GOD. He subjects his will to that of his Creator.
Purposeful: Understands there is but one method for success; time and energy.
He acknowledges life will interject wondrous events and circumstances. He willingly
and inevitably adjusts his initial goals.
Provider: Is mindful of the needs of his spouse, children, friends and self . He
meets these with love, time spent and inspiration (in-spirit). He knows material
things alone can never hope to achieve authentic love.
Trustworthiness: Must first be honest with himself, to discern the real motives
behind his actions; this will facilitate his ability to be honest with others. He has an
uncompromising ethical code based on his values, spirituality and his own experiences.
Unselfishness: Is generous with his time, talent and treasures for the betterment
of others. He has developed a discerning mind to minimize becoming a doormat for
those who would abuse his generous spirit. He is mindful it is better to be used than
to be the user.
Facility for Compassion: Is cognizant of the real, undeserved suffering of others.
He is innately willing to do something about it now. He never forgets charity starts
at home, strengthening him to give more to others.
Seeker of Wisdom: Has chosen upstanding role models. Treats himself as he
would a friend, with knowledge he will experience lapses in judgment and will
make mistakes along the way. He makes use of these events to learn. He remembers
to be grateful always.
Thanks from the bottom of my heart, Dan, for sharing your personal creed. You are
a role model for resilience. Why not share this with all the men you love, your kids,
grand kids and friends? What would you add to your creed? How about sprinkling
some loving kindness your own way, too?
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